A private community for couples & singles · Launching in Florida, then everywhere
Everyone in this room is real.
Every adult on every account passes an ID and face check before they can so much as say hello. No bots. No catfish. No "couples" that turn out to be one guy with two photos.
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Opening night: October 1
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THE WAITLIST
A private list — not a sign-up sheet.
We do not sell your email. Service providers process it as described in our Privacy Policy. 18+ only.
The list
Good things come to those on the list.
Get the launch notice first — and first crack at one of 500 founding lifetime memberships that will never be offered again.
First through the doors.
Opening-day invite lands in your inbox before anyone else hears about it.
The founding offer.
500 lifetime memberships, announced by email only. When they're gone, they're gone.
Your link skips the line.
Every friend who joins from your invite link moves you up. Bring your people; open the doors sooner.
Why The Swing
Built different from the legacy sites.
Verified, or invisible.
Nobody appears in this community until every adult on the account passes an ID and face check — couples verify both partners. You deserve to know there are actually two people on the other side of the conversation.
Private by design.
Your photos stay yours: permission-based, watermarked, revocable. Your location stays fuzzy by default. Your membership never shows up anywhere it shouldn't — including your lock screen.
Honest rooms.
No padded member counts. No ghost profiles from 2011. You'll always see who's actually active — because a dead profile is a lie other sites tell to sell memberships.
How it works
Three steps. You're in.
1
Get on the list.
Share your email, member type, and city. No account or card today.
2
October 1 is the target.
Registration opens only after processor and compliance approval. The list hears first whether the target holds or moves.
3
Verify once, then come in.
Every adult on the account completes a private ID and face check with a third-party identity provider. We do not receive or store the source ID or face images; we receive the result and receipt.
Venue directory
The clubs are real, too.
An independent, editorial directory of lifestyle venues we can verify — starting with Florida's best rooms, expanding across the country.
Trapeze — Fort Lauderdale (Tamarac) · Miami Velvet — Miami · Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa — Kissimmee/Orlando
Your city's next. Get on the list →
The evenings
Dressed up, and nowhere to hide behind a screen.
Long tables, quiet corners, and rooms that were booked for exactly this. Here is the kind of night the calendar fills with.
Founders Club
500 lifetime memberships. Then never again.
Founding members lock lifetime access at a one-time price, carry the founder badge forever, and help pick which cities open next.
Couples & singles — $229, once.
One price for everyone. Standing here is earned — verification, event attendance, member vouches — never bought.
Founding pricing goes live the day payments open; nothing can be charged before then, and full terms publish first.
Compare all tiers →Discretion, by design
Quiet where it counts.
A neutral name on your statement.
Billing runs under a discreet, boring descriptor — published before payments ever open, so you'll know exactly what your statement will say.
Verification without a paper trail.
Identity checks happen with a third-party provider. We receive a result — never your documents, never your selfie.
Quiet on your phone.
Notifications never show names or photos on a lock screen. The app answers to you, not to whoever glances at your screen.
For single women
Meet verified couples — without opening yourself to everyone.
Real couples, both partners individually ID- and face-verified. Introductions reach you only after you say yes. You decide what to share, and with whom.
Verified couples, not guesswork.
A couple profile activates only once both partners individually complete their own ID and face check — never one person speaking for two.
You control every introduction.
A request reaches you as a preview, not an open inbox. Nobody can message you until you accept — no explanation owed if you don't.
Private by design.
Approximate location, revocable private albums, and no public directory — every setting is yours alone to configure.
Bare Getaways
Take it somewhere warm.
Resort takeovers, lifestyle cruises, clothing-optional escapes — travel is coming to The Swing through our sister brand, Bare Getaways.
"I built The Swing for adults who value trust and discretion — people tired of ghost towns and guessing games. October 1 is our target, and we'll open the moment the room is ready: verified, private, and worth your time. Get on the list; I'll see you opening night."
— George Seidel · Founder, The Swing
Common questions
October 1 is our target for Florida, then the rest of the US, then worldwide. The list gets the opening notice first — and if the date moves, the list hears that first too, with the reason why.
Three things: the opening-day invite before anyone else, first access to the 500 founding lifetime memberships, and an invite link that moves you up the line every time a friend joins. It's free, and it stays free.
Because everything wrong with lifestyle sites — bots, catfish, fake couples, dead rooms — starts with anonymous accounts. One private ID and face check per adult keeps all of it out. It's the price of a room where everyone's real, and it's free to complete.
That's the whole point. Nobody is visible until every adult on the account is verified, and we don't pad the room with dead profiles or inflated member counts. What you see is who's actually here.
Couples and singles in the lifestyle — and couples who've been talking about it at 1 a.m. and want a trustworthy place to start. Experienced or curious, you'll find your speed. 18+, always.
Joining the list is free, and verification is free. Membership pricing is published on the membership page — including the one-time founding offer. Nothing can be charged before doors open, and full terms publish before any payment is taken.
Not from us. Discreet billing descriptor (published before payments open), no names or photos on lock-screen notifications, no data sales, and photo controls that keep your face in your hands. Discretion isn't a feature here — it's the architecture.
25 days to opening night.
Basic launch details. No account, no card. Just the first look.
THE WAITLIST
A private list — not a sign-up sheet.
We do not sell your email. Service providers process it as described in our Privacy Policy. 18+ only.